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Robert L. Wilson

July 9, 1941 - June 3, 2009
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Robert L. Wilson, age 67, of Schererville, IN, passed away on Wednesday, June 3, 2009 at St. Anthony Medical Center in Crown Point, IN. He is survived by his wife, Kathleen Carr, 2 daughters, Pam Csikos of Hammond, IN and Deborah Richard Clemons of St. John, IN, 3 grandchildren, Brooke Csikos and Garrett and KendallContinue Reading

Randy Dorociak left a message on March 22, 2012:
I just had the idea to contact an old friend from Indiana. I used the internet to try and locate my old friend Bob Wilson Iron Horse. I was saddened to learn of his passing in 2009. We would like to extend ou heartfelt condolences to Kathy and his children. We had many good time over the years and I know that I will miss him but will celebrate his memory. We will keep Bobs' family in our prayers and thoughts. His memory will always burn brightly in our hearst and minds. Most Sincerely, Randy and Carol Dorociak
Pam left a message on December 25, 2009:
Merry Christmas Dad! It's official Ted and I are engaged. We are getting married next Halloween! Wish you were here. It's so not the same without you but I am learning to adjust since you are always with us in spirit and watching over us. Looking forward to starting the new year with lots of new chapters in a new life. Love you Dad and Merry Christmas!!!! Your loving daughter,
ted left a message on November 10, 2009:
bob i got to know you only a short time and you welcomed me into the family with open arms. i know i can never say thank you enough. you brought something special into my life and thats pam. i will always love her deep in my heart and keep her safe. i know that s what you would ask of me. im gonna marry her soon and give her all the love and caring she truly deserves and i hope that will meet youre approval..... till me meet again.......future dad in law...
ted left a message on November 10, 2009:
bob i got to know u only a short time and u welcomed me into the family with open arms. i know i can never say thank you enough. you brought something special into my life and thats pam. i will always love her deep in my heart and keep her safe. i know that s what you would ask of me. im gonna maeey her soon and give her all the love and caring she truly deserves and i hope that will meet youre approval..... till me meet again.......future dad in law...
Pam left a message on November 9, 2009:
As I was typing this, it brought tears to my eyes. It's been five months since my Dad passed away and I can honestly say that he'd be proud of the things we have said about him and still say about him. He spent his dash very well. As we are approaching Thanksgiving and Christmas just around the corner, I wish he were still here with us. I know in my heart that he's in a much better place and that God had some big plans for him. As a country song goes . . . just one more day. Those thoughts go through my mind daily - if I had just one more day . . . All I know is that I love and miss you so much Dad but I know you are here with us in spirit! And all I want to do now is the best that I can do in everything and keep making you proud! Love you!!!!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Pam left a message on November 9, 2009:
Sorry I had to do this in 3 posts but it was too long! Hope you enjoy this. I ran across this poem the other day and I wanted to share this! I hope you enjoy this as much as I do. The Dash Poem by Linda Ellis: I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end. He noted that first came the date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears. But he said what matted most of all Was the dash between those years. For the dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth. For it matters now how much we own: The cars, the house, the cash.
Pam left a message on November 9, 2009:
What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be arranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what's true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life's actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash?
Pam left a message on July 8, 2009:
Dear Dad, Happy Birthday! Here it is your first birthday in Heaven and I hope it's one of the best ones that you have. Oh and the next time I make Pumpkin Cake, I'll bring you a slice. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you and get sad and teary eyed but I know that you are in a much better place with no ailments holding you back. I hope that Heaven is all that they say it with the sunny skies and happy days. I know that you wouldn't want any of us to be sad but I miss you tremendously. There are so many things we didn't get to do together as a family and I wish you were here to do them with us. We are all getting ready to take this wonderful trip to Gatlinburg and I wish you were here to go with us. In my heart I know you will be with us the whole time watching over us and making sure our journey is a safe one. Anyways Dad, I hope you have a great day and are watching over all of us knowing how much we miss and love you! Happy Birthday! I love you with all my heart.
Pam left a message on June 21, 2009:
Good Morning Dad - Happy Father's Day. So here we are our first Father's Day without - how weird it is. Ted and I planted flowers at your resting place the other day. I hope you are enjoying your new home and I am sure you loved Kendall's recital the last two nights. How I wish you were still here with us. We have a little over a month before we all go to Gatlinburg. I am really looking forward to that Dad and I know that you will be with us the whole time. Atleast this Father's Day you get to celebrate it with Michael and Grandma and Grandpaboth sets of Grandparents. Anyways, I wanted to wish you a Happy Father's Day Dad - hope you liked that card. I love you with all my heart and miss you bunches. Your loving daughter,
joanna left a message on June 15, 2009:
Well.... This one time, a long, long, long time ago, Debbie, Joe, Richie and I drove to Richie's grandparents cottage. We had so much fun and did not want to leave, so Richie's grandma said we could spend the night. So when Debbie called home her dad so, your coming home right now and if I have to knock on every cabin door to find you I will!!!!! That was even after he talked to Richie's grandma and she reassured him Debbie and I would be sleeping together and not Debbie and Joe. Bob didn't care. He wanted Debbie home now and he meant now. I could hear him yelling in that raspy voice and told Debbie, you better go now. I didn't want to get in trouble! I loved saying to him Hi Mr. Wilson He would smile and chuckle, he always had a smile to greet me when I saw him, I can picture it in my head right now and its making me get a knot in my throat and my eyes tear up. When I would come over Mr. Wilson didn't say a whole lot, but when he did we listened, because it was something important. God Bless you Mr. Wilson. JoAnna Mills
Pam left a message on June 13, 2009:
Dear Dad, You are gone but not forgotten. It's been a week since we laid you to rest and I think about you all the time. I know in my heart you are in a much better place and definitely better off. Atleast now you are watching over all of us and taking care of us in your own way just as you always did. I keep hoping that one day you will two way me just to see what I'm doing and wake me up just like you used to. Or for that phone call to see what Ted and I were doing for dinner. Then reality sets in and I know that won't happen until we meet again in our eternal life. Thanks Dad for all the wonderful memories you have given me and there are lots of them. I'm glad that I found Ted and he had the opportunity to get to know you. I am thankful that Brooke had the last 15 years to spend with you. You have no idea how special you are to her. Thanks for always knowing what to say to me when I would be frustrated with her and helping me guide her over the years. I know you will continue to help me when I need that guidance and patience as she grows older. You have made me treasure every breath I take and made it more clear to me that life is way to short and I should enjoy all of it. I love you Dad! Until we meet again in eternal life.
Susan Comstock Friis left a message on June 11, 2009:
Dear Kathy & family, It's been such a long time since I have gotten to get together with you and to find Bob is now gone seems unbelieveable to me. Bob was fun and sweet to me always. I know what the feelings are to lose someone like this, I found Bob's obit after checking Chris' that is here too. Bob is no longer in pain, he has no sorrows and I am sure being the best he can be watching over all of you. Don't lose your faith stay in God's blessings. Bob will never leave you. Love and blessings to you, Pam, Debbie & spouses.
Ed and Pat Whitehead and family left a message on June 7, 2009:
Dear Kathy, Pam, Debbie and families, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Bob. Noone is ready for this to happen to someone that you love so dearly. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Pat and Ed
Michael & Kathy Troth left a message on June 6, 2009:
Very very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Our heart felt condolences to the family.
GeneandLil left a message on June 6, 2009:
Robert was our paper driver for many years and we were always sure our paper would be delivered very early. We are sure he was a very devoted husband and father and he will be dearly missed. Our condolences to the family.
Brooke Csikos left a message on June 6, 2009:
-this poem was very hard to write considering i didnt know what to say....but here this one i just for you grandpa... Aging is a natural process of life. It begins the moment we are born. Strangely enough, most of us live under the illusion that we and
Jan left a message on June 5, 2009:
Hey There or GM I would type when I signed onto the game website where Bob and I met. That has to be 4 or 5 years ago now. We played Spades or Gin or just chatted. He was a great guy, we laughed a lot....sometimes at the stupidest stuff. I will miss him. I know Kathy, Pam, Deb and the rest of his family will miss him. My prayers are with you all. Jan
Bernard Leach left a message on June 5, 2009:
Hello Wilson Family, Bob was a good friend to me for the short time that I knew him. He will be truly missed and I know he has a strong family that will survive because of his strong personality. I will always remember him as I will always keep you all in my prayers.
Debbie Lawrence left a message on June 5, 2009:
We want to tell the family we are so sorry for your lost. Uncle Bob I will always remember you. Thanks for having this online. Debbie Lawrence
Sheila left a message on June 5, 2009:
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May you find comfort and peace with the wonderful memories of Bob.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Brian Csikos left a message on June 5, 2009:
Our life on this earth is very short and thus more precious than most realize. I tend to believe that the greatest measure of our lives is how we touch and treat the people around us. These memories, feelings, and love is what carries on after we pass. STORY- I have one distinct memory and event with Bob some 15 years back now. We were driving in his pick-up on a snowy day through a neighborhood. In an instant he lost control and we flew off the road, into someones front yard, narrowly driving between some trees and back on the road. It happened so fast we didn't have time to think about it. Once on the road we slowly glanced at each other we fear and astonshiment in our eyes. Then we both broke out in laughter. I remember Bob's distint giggle laugh, unlike anyone's I've ever heard since. I don't think I've ever went from fear to laughter so fast. Thanks for the memory Bob, see you soon -when my time comes.
Susan Carr left a message on June 5, 2009:
Kathy and Family At this time of sorrow all of us have fond memories. I know I always looked forward to when we were all together, Bob and Belinda would start with their POLISH jokes. One time I wet my pants laughing so hard. None of us can go back and live that time but a loss of our parents and now our brother-in-law makes me wonder WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE. Past memories are precious and future ones are yet to come. Love Susan
Faye Cowser left a message on June 4, 2009:
We enjoyed your father being our paper man for several years. I know he will be missed by all of you. God bless you all. Faye Cowser and Ann Lutgen 86th Ct Dyer, In
Rebecca left a message on June 4, 2009:
To Bob and his loving family members, I will never forget how Debbie's voice and face would always light up and get a far away look whenever she would tell me stories about from when she was younger. You were always depicted as a great and knowledgeable father who loved his children and wanted them to know as much as possible and use the knowledge gainfully. I know you will be missed by many, but your wife,daughters, and grandchildren will miss you the most. To the family, stay strong and always keep your memories of Bob close to your heart.
Arletta Butler/ sister left a message on June 4, 2009:
Bob, we were so Happy to find you after so many years, of not knowing you or where you were, you were thought of often. It was so good to find that we still had a brother and a sister-in-law and 2 nieces, and over the years even though we could not get together as often as I would have liked. I am very proud of the family I have found and all their accomplishments. I love you all, and I wish we could have had more time to spend with you, Bob and the rest of the family. Your loving sister, Arletta
Debbie left a message on June 4, 2009:
Well Dad where do I begin... I love you very much and will miss you more then anyone will ever know. It has been really hard to comprehend the thought of never being able to hear you laugh or whistle a tune that I always could finish,to look at your blue eyes that always had a unique sparkle even until the very end. I can close my eyes and see your signature smirk and your special wink of your left eye! You were an incredible father, my most favorite guest at my little tea parties, the most enthusiastic audience a young performer could ever ask for, the best stove top popcorn maker, my most favorite late night ice cream sundae eating partner,the best bedtime closet and under the bed security checker a little girl could ask for, always and I mean always tucked me in snug as a bug for a goodnight sleep, and by far the most fantastic storybook reader with all the right voices! You have given a set of footsteps to follow in my own parenting journey and I hope to be half as successfull as you were as a parent! I LOVE YOU DAD... and I know we will meet again in a new world's journey. Your loving daughter.
Amanda left a message on June 4, 2009:
Bob, you are gonna be missed in so many different ways. You have been the voice of reason, and your words of wisdom and honesty have touched so many that you loved. I remember when I first started working for Debbie you would come over and help with bus runs and the mowing of the lawn on your blue tractor I still feel bad about running the stick over that did it in. I will always remember you walking into the daycare, I would say Hi Bob how are you doing today you would give me a little smirk and say Well I'm here right??? So I guess it is a pretty good day! Each time your answer stayed the same, and each time it always made me giggle. Thank you for giving in to Debbie and her dream back in 1993. If you still told her no that final Friday, Debbie would not have been able to touch the lives of so many children and adults including me. I am sad you are gone, but I am happy you will no longer have to struggle with your health. Your family has an amazing person watching over them now.
Pam Csikos left a message on June 3, 2009:
Dad - You are gonna be missed greatly by us. We are so blessed that we had a great dad like you and got to enjoy the years we had with you. You taught Debbie and I some great values. Thank you for that. There won't be a day that goes by that I won't be thinking of you. Atleast now you are pain and disease free and can always be there to watch over us and our children. I love you Dad and will miss you so much!!!!!! Love you Pam
Geisen Funeral Home left a message:
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