Joseph G. Starkey, age 41 of Valparaiso, passed away on Tuesday, March 23, 2021. Survived by wife of 15 years, Kelsey (nee Ruiz), children: Kylie, Lyla, and Joey; parents, Joe and Nancy Starkey; brother, Luke (Christine) Starkey; parents-in-law: Fred and Verna Ruiz; brothers-in-law: Marc (Tracy) Ruiz and Mario (Sarah) Ruiz; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces,Continue Reading
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Joseph G. Starkey, age 41 of Valparaiso, passed away on Tuesday, March 23, 2021.
Survived by wife of 15 years, Kelsey (nee Ruiz), children: Kylie, Lyla, and Joey; parents, Joe and Nancy Starkey; brother, Luke (Christine) Starkey; parents-in-law: Fred and Verna Ruiz; brothers-in-law: Marc (Tracy) Ruiz and Mario (Sarah) Ruiz; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.
Joe was a devoted husband, father, son, brother and uncle. He was a graduate of Boone Grove High School, class of 1998 and Indiana University. Joe was a partner at Oak Partners Wealth and Retirement Planning. Outside of work, Joe cherished his time with his family and friends. He loved being a husband, father, and son and was usually planning family get togethers. Joe enjoyed golfing, working out, and coaching his children. He was helping others and always made philanthropy a priority.
Friends and Family may gather at St. Paul Catholic Church, 1755 Harrison Blvd, Valparaiso on Tuesday, March 30, from 3:00 to 7:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be Wednesday, March 31, directly at St. Paul Catholic Church at 10:00 A.M. with Rev. Jeff Burton and Rev. Doug Mayer officiating. At rest, St. Paul Cemetery.
Due to Covid, there will be limited seating; therefore, the Funeral Mass will be livestreamed at https://saintpaulvalpo.org/live-stream-and-social-media or at pruzinfuneralservice.com. We please ask that visitors maintain social distance and keep condolences to a minimum. FACE MASKS REQUIRED. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to Mental Health American or the NWI Food Bank.
To view church service live stream please click here
Rick Bobos
left a message on April 6, 2021:
So sorry for the loss. Joe was such a fun-loving, kind person. From the first day I met him he truly was always sincere and welcoming.
Paul Norwich
left a message on April 2, 2021:
I can't imagine the grief you feel.
Shane Crist
left a message on April 1, 2021:
My deepest sympathy to all of Joe's family. He was a great guy and will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family and friends.
Mike & Wendy Fuchs
left a message on March 30, 2021:
Wendy and I are deeply sadden with Joe’s passing. Our prayers go out for the Starkey family. Joe will be greatly missed. We were so happy to know him.
Steven & Susan Kekelik
left a message on March 30, 2021:
We are out of town but with you in spirit our deepest sympathy although no words can express how truly sorry we were to hear of Joe’s passing.
God Bless you and your family And may you be comforted by the amount of people supporting and grieving your loss.
The Kekelik’s
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ronald & Julie Zahora
left a message on March 30, 2021:
Our heartfelt sympathies go out to the Starkey and Ruiz families. May our Lord comfort you in your loss.
Joan Kieffer-Martinez
left a message on March 30, 2021:
Nancy and Joe and the entire family, may you have the strength you need for today and the hope you need for tomorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Jerry and Helen Schulte
left a message on March 29, 2021:
We extend our deepest sympathy and love to you at this time. We are deeply sorry for your great loss and are praying for all of you.
Linda Lee Daves
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers are with the family,
MAX P & EVIE MEJAN
left a message on March 29, 2021:
To the Starkey, Ruiz & Oak Partners Families: Our Hearts are extended to all of you in this sad and Sudden Loss of a Beauty of a Man whose life was shortened that only God above can one day explain. Joe was Such a Compassionate, and caring man always willing to go to the 20th Mile. His relationship to His wife and Kids he lived for and touched us all. We can only try to copy His love for Family, Friends his Co-workers and what the word Relationships meant. God's Grace and Mercy be upon each member and Friend that He may live on in our hearts until we meet again one day in Eternity.
Miguel Valtierra
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our prayers and condolences to Joe's family. Laura and I were blessed to have been able to work with Joe as He was always very kind and professional. God grant his family peace.
Linda Lauer
left a message on March 29, 2021:
I’m so sorry to hear about Joe’s passing and my deep condolences to his family and all of Oak Partners Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Tim, Jane & Janet Ayers
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our DEEPEST thoughts and prayers are directed your way during this terrible and unexpected loss of a kind, significant, accomplished Son, Husband, Father, and Friend to so many. Our family has arranged for a MASS to be said in his remembrance that we hope might ease; even slightly, the pain you are experiencing at this moment. Your entire family will be in our prayers. May God Bless You All. The Ayers Family.
Ronald Zurek
left a message on March 29, 2021:
To the entire Starkey Family, heartfelt condolences, may GOD's light surround you during this difficult time.
JOAN Vith
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My deepest condolences to Joe and Nancy and all of your son"s family. May your faith sustain you and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
John & Lola Madrigal
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our deepest condolences to the Starkey and Ruiz families. We were blessed to have known Joe as our friend and Advisor.
May the dear Lord provide his families peace and comfort this time of of sorrow.
John & Lola Madrigal
Kathy & Ben Nuzzo
left a message on March 29, 2021:
So very sorry for your loss. We never fully understand why. It feels so unfair. But, when you can, remember he loved each of you and all the good memories. He will always be close in your heart. They never really leave us. They live on in us.
Jim & Patty Secviar
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our deepest condolences to the Starkey family and the team at Oak Partners. We didn’t know him personally, but we are saddened by the tragic loss of someone so young. May his memory be eternal.
Jeffery Dobes
left a message on March 29, 2021:
I met Joe after Micheal Matzs gave my accounts to Oak Partners he was a great person I give his family my great condolences and and will pray for him and his family GOD BLESS HIM and HIS family Jeffery Dobes.
Frank and Juanita Peters
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Frank and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to your family. Sending prayers
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ron Koves
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Joe was a blessing to me. I was always encouraged and energized after every conversation. May God bring strength and comfort to you through this difficult time.
Bill and Marge Schocke
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our deepest sympathy.
Tom and Jackie Ruiz & Girls
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Please accept our deepest sympathies...
Joyce Walker
left a message on March 29, 2021:
I remember a wonderful little boy at Porter Lakes. My condolences to the family.
Ken and Shirley Miller
left a message on March 29, 2021:
We have been fortunate to know Joe for a number of years, and we are so deeply saddened by his passing. Our most sincere sympathies to Joe's family and colleagues. Please know that we are praying for the Lord's presence to be of comfort to you in this time of grief.
Mitzi Egnatz
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Joe offered heart based guidance to all whom came across his path. How fortunate we were to hear him give loving counsel about the things he cared about most and knew would help brighten humanity. Sending thoughts of love and warmth for this time and beyond. Mitzi Egnatz
JOAN Vith
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My deepest condolences to Joe and Nancy and all of your son's family. May your faith sustain you and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Juanita Peters
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Frank and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to your family. Sending prayers
Kenneth W Urbaniak
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My sincerest and deepest sympathies.
Peggy Jones
left a message on March 29, 2021:
With my deepest heartfelt sympathy to the Starkey and Ruiz families as well as Joe's co-workers at Oak Partners. I was fortunate to know Joe who always guided me in the right direction. Joe's life was taken at the prime of his life! We don't know why this was God's plan for Joe. My prayers for your healing in this time of grief and sadness.
Peggy Jones
Mary and Jerry Sibincic
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Joe's family. He was taken much to soon. Mary and Jerry Sibincic.
Renae Vania Tomczak
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Sending God's blessing for peace, courage, and comfort to family and friends. May time and memories help lessen the burden of your sorrow. The ones well loved remain in our hearts forever.
Joe served on the board of MHA of Northwest Indiana when I served as the CEO of the organization. He truly had a heart for service and a personal desire to serve the needs of the most vulnerable in the NWI community. While his life was too short, he truly represents a life well lived.
Tom Ricketts
left a message on March 28, 2021:
I've known Joe for quite some time now. Just heard of his passing and I am shocked. Trustworthy, competent, and compassionate is how I'd describe Joe. I will miss him. My heartfelt condolences to his family and all those at Oak Partners.
Ryane Puckett
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Sending my love and prayers to all the loved Joe.
Linda Jostes
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Dear Nancy and Joe, I was sorry to read about the passing of your son Joe. May GOD give you and your family the love and strength to get through your loss. --Linda Jostes
Leticia Fernandez
left a message on March 28, 2021:
As a former and very grateful Salk student of Mr. Joe Starkey, I received this news with much sadness. Please accept my deepest condolences. May the memory of your son be a blessing.
Greg Chalas
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Joe was always a gracious, fun, and knowledgeable guy. I knew Joe through calling on him for work and will miss all of our interactions. RIP Joe and my condolences to all his family.
Helen Jurczyk & Family
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Joe, Nancy, and family, we are so sorry to hear of Joe’s unexpected passing and are thinking of you during this difficult time. May his memory be eternal.
Irene, Jim, and Jordyn Grosdanis
left a message on March 27, 2021:
We got to know Joe as our girls played basketball together. I was always so impressed with his calm, steady support of Lyla as she progressed in the sport. Jordyn always commented how great of a teammate Lyla is and how excited she was to join volleyball because Joe was going to be the coach. It was evident Joe was a man of great character. Our hearts go out to the Starkey family.
Leslie Sanders
left a message on March 27, 2021:
May God help you find peace and comfort in your memories during this difficult time. Joe was a kind man with a very caring soul. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Corey Girnus
left a message on March 27, 2021:
I am so very sorry to hear this news of Joe's passing. My prayers are with all of you as you navigate through this difficult time.
Melanie Maicki
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Sooo Sorry for your loss !
Al &Sue Krupa
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Our condolences to the Starkey family. Only knew Joe for a short time but he left a big impression and was always fun to talk with. May he Rest In Peace.
Stasia and Tom Wefler
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Words seem inadequate to express our deep sadness at the loss of Joe. He truly was a good man and we will miss him. Our deepest condolences to Kelsey and his children, your loss is immeasurable.. Joe, Nancy and family our hearts go out to you and you are all in our prayers. God's blessings to you all.
Eric Gibson
left a message on March 26, 2021:
You will be dearly missed cous! I will cherish the memories of all of us playing volleyball together and against eachother since we went to different schools. I love ya bud! Rest easy
Love
Cousin Eric
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Rick Bobos
left a message on April 6, 2021:
So sorry for the loss. Joe was such a fun-loving, kind person. From the first day I met him he truly was always sincere and welcoming.
Paul Norwich
left a message on April 2, 2021:
I can't imagine the grief you feel.
Shane Crist
left a message on April 1, 2021:
My deepest sympathy to all of Joe's family. He was a great guy and will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family and friends.
Mike & Wendy Fuchs
left a message on March 30, 2021:
Wendy and I are deeply sadden with Joe’s passing. Our prayers go out for the Starkey family. Joe will be greatly missed. We were so happy to know him.
Steven & Susan Kekelik
left a message on March 30, 2021:
We are out of town but with you in spirit our deepest sympathy although no words can express how truly sorry we were to hear of Joe’s passing.
God Bless you and your family And may you be comforted by the amount of people supporting and grieving your loss.
The Kekelik’s
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ronald & Julie Zahora
left a message on March 30, 2021:
Our heartfelt sympathies go out to the Starkey and Ruiz families. May our Lord comfort you in your loss.
Joan Kieffer-Martinez
left a message on March 30, 2021:
Nancy and Joe and the entire family, may you have the strength you need for today and the hope you need for tomorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Jerry and Helen Schulte
left a message on March 29, 2021:
We extend our deepest sympathy and love to you at this time. We are deeply sorry for your great loss and are praying for all of you.
Linda Lee Daves
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers are with the family,
MAX P & EVIE MEJAN
left a message on March 29, 2021:
To the Starkey, Ruiz & Oak Partners Families: Our Hearts are extended to all of you in this sad and Sudden Loss of a Beauty of a Man whose life was shortened that only God above can one day explain. Joe was Such a Compassionate, and caring man always willing to go to the 20th Mile. His relationship to His wife and Kids he lived for and touched us all. We can only try to copy His love for Family, Friends his Co-workers and what the word Relationships meant. God's Grace and Mercy be upon each member and Friend that He may live on in our hearts until we meet again one day in Eternity.
Miguel Valtierra
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our prayers and condolences to Joe's family. Laura and I were blessed to have been able to work with Joe as He was always very kind and professional. God grant his family peace.
Linda Lauer
left a message on March 29, 2021:
I’m so sorry to hear about Joe’s passing and my deep condolences to his family and all of Oak Partners Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Tim, Jane & Janet Ayers
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our DEEPEST thoughts and prayers are directed your way during this terrible and unexpected loss of a kind, significant, accomplished Son, Husband, Father, and Friend to so many. Our family has arranged for a MASS to be said in his remembrance that we hope might ease; even slightly, the pain you are experiencing at this moment. Your entire family will be in our prayers. May God Bless You All. The Ayers Family.
Ronald Zurek
left a message on March 29, 2021:
To the entire Starkey Family, heartfelt condolences, may GOD's light surround you during this difficult time.
JOAN Vith
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My deepest condolences to Joe and Nancy and all of your son"s family. May your faith sustain you and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
John & Lola Madrigal
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our deepest condolences to the Starkey and Ruiz families. We were blessed to have known Joe as our friend and Advisor.
May the dear Lord provide his families peace and comfort this time of of sorrow.
John & Lola Madrigal
Kathy & Ben Nuzzo
left a message on March 29, 2021:
So very sorry for your loss. We never fully understand why. It feels so unfair. But, when you can, remember he loved each of you and all the good memories. He will always be close in your heart. They never really leave us. They live on in us.
Jim & Patty Secviar
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our deepest condolences to the Starkey family and the team at Oak Partners. We didn’t know him personally, but we are saddened by the tragic loss of someone so young. May his memory be eternal.
Jeffery Dobes
left a message on March 29, 2021:
I met Joe after Micheal Matzs gave my accounts to Oak Partners he was a great person I give his family my great condolences and and will pray for him and his family GOD BLESS HIM and HIS family Jeffery Dobes.
Frank and Juanita Peters
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Frank and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to your family. Sending prayers
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ron Koves
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Joe was a blessing to me. I was always encouraged and energized after every conversation. May God bring strength and comfort to you through this difficult time.
Bill and Marge Schocke
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Our deepest sympathy.
Tom and Jackie Ruiz & Girls
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Please accept our deepest sympathies...
Joyce Walker
left a message on March 29, 2021:
I remember a wonderful little boy at Porter Lakes. My condolences to the family.
Ken and Shirley Miller
left a message on March 29, 2021:
We have been fortunate to know Joe for a number of years, and we are so deeply saddened by his passing. Our most sincere sympathies to Joe's family and colleagues. Please know that we are praying for the Lord's presence to be of comfort to you in this time of grief.
Mitzi Egnatz
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Joe offered heart based guidance to all whom came across his path. How fortunate we were to hear him give loving counsel about the things he cared about most and knew would help brighten humanity. Sending thoughts of love and warmth for this time and beyond. Mitzi Egnatz
JOAN Vith
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My deepest condolences to Joe and Nancy and all of your son's family. May your faith sustain you and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Juanita Peters
left a message on March 29, 2021:
Frank and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to your family. Sending prayers
Kenneth W Urbaniak
left a message on March 29, 2021:
My sincerest and deepest sympathies.
Peggy Jones
left a message on March 29, 2021:
With my deepest heartfelt sympathy to the Starkey and Ruiz families as well as Joe's co-workers at Oak Partners. I was fortunate to know Joe who always guided me in the right direction. Joe's life was taken at the prime of his life! We don't know why this was God's plan for Joe. My prayers for your healing in this time of grief and sadness.
Peggy Jones
Mary and Jerry Sibincic
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Joe's family. He was taken much to soon. Mary and Jerry Sibincic.
Renae Vania Tomczak
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Sending God's blessing for peace, courage, and comfort to family and friends. May time and memories help lessen the burden of your sorrow. The ones well loved remain in our hearts forever.
Joe served on the board of MHA of Northwest Indiana when I served as the CEO of the organization. He truly had a heart for service and a personal desire to serve the needs of the most vulnerable in the NWI community. While his life was too short, he truly represents a life well lived.
Tom Ricketts
left a message on March 28, 2021:
I've known Joe for quite some time now. Just heard of his passing and I am shocked. Trustworthy, competent, and compassionate is how I'd describe Joe. I will miss him. My heartfelt condolences to his family and all those at Oak Partners.
Ryane Puckett
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Sending my love and prayers to all the loved Joe.
Linda Jostes
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Dear Nancy and Joe, I was sorry to read about the passing of your son Joe. May GOD give you and your family the love and strength to get through your loss. --Linda Jostes
Leticia Fernandez
left a message on March 28, 2021:
As a former and very grateful Salk student of Mr. Joe Starkey, I received this news with much sadness. Please accept my deepest condolences. May the memory of your son be a blessing.
Greg Chalas
left a message on March 28, 2021:
Joe was always a gracious, fun, and knowledgeable guy. I knew Joe through calling on him for work and will miss all of our interactions. RIP Joe and my condolences to all his family.
Helen Jurczyk & Family
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Joe, Nancy, and family, we are so sorry to hear of Joe’s unexpected passing and are thinking of you during this difficult time. May his memory be eternal.
Irene, Jim, and Jordyn Grosdanis
left a message on March 27, 2021:
We got to know Joe as our girls played basketball together. I was always so impressed with his calm, steady support of Lyla as she progressed in the sport. Jordyn always commented how great of a teammate Lyla is and how excited she was to join volleyball because Joe was going to be the coach. It was evident Joe was a man of great character. Our hearts go out to the Starkey family.
Leslie Sanders
left a message on March 27, 2021:
May God help you find peace and comfort in your memories during this difficult time. Joe was a kind man with a very caring soul. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Corey Girnus
left a message on March 27, 2021:
I am so very sorry to hear this news of Joe's passing. My prayers are with all of you as you navigate through this difficult time.
Melanie Maicki
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Sooo Sorry for your loss !
Al &Sue Krupa
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Our condolences to the Starkey family. Only knew Joe for a short time but he left a big impression and was always fun to talk with. May he Rest In Peace.
Stasia and Tom Wefler
left a message on March 27, 2021:
Words seem inadequate to express our deep sadness at the loss of Joe. He truly was a good man and we will miss him. Our deepest condolences to Kelsey and his children, your loss is immeasurable.. Joe, Nancy and family our hearts go out to you and you are all in our prayers. God's blessings to you all.
Eric Gibson
left a message on March 26, 2021:
You will be dearly missed cous! I will cherish the memories of all of us playing volleyball together and against eachother since we went to different schools. I love ya bud! Rest easy
Love
Cousin Eric
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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