Shay Lynn Heddens

February 8, 1974 - April 6, 2013
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Shay Lynn (Shaffer) Heddens, age 39, of Michigan City, IN, passed away on April 6, 2013 in Michigan City, IN. Shay was born February 8, 1974 in Michigan City, IN to Donald R. Shaffer (deceased) and Catherine A. (Schumaker) who survives. Shay is survived by her husband: Robert Heddens of Michigan City, IN; children: EmmaContinue Reading

Emma Heddens left a message on December 20, 2014:
Mom and little brother, I miss you so much. I cry everyday. Just because you are gone. I know how the pain and the abuse that you went through feels like. I know you two know i've gotten abused to. I usually get bullied at school but thats fine. I have a lot of memories that we had together. I just wish i wasn't like my dad. I wish i could be happy. But im not.Words will never explain how much i miss you two. I love you Mom. I love you Lil brother. May you forever rest in peace.
Dr. Marc Hardy left a message on May 7, 2013:
Marcia, I am so very sorry to hear about Shay's passing. I remember years ago at Foxes telling me of your times spent with her as a little girl. I remeber the time you told about when she swallowed a penny and how worried you were. You loved her like your own, and I'm sure for you it was like losing your own child. My heart goes out to you and my prayers as well. Marc
weningers and owens left a message on April 22, 2013:
Dear Cathy and family , We are all soooo very sorry for your loss. we will keep you inout prayers... may God be with all of you. with love, from rob owens and marilyn and don weninger
diane massa left a message on April 13, 2013:
Kathy,Devin,Emma and Marcia-Words cannot express the deep sadness I feel for all of you. God bless.
Lorie (Ritchie) Chambers left a message on April 12, 2013:
Dear Mrs.Shaffer, I am so sorry about Shay and her little boy. I can still remember us playing together when we were kids like it was yesterday. She was such a beautiful,smart, and sweet girl. I will pray for you and the children.
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Judy Smith left a message on April 12, 2013:
Marcia and family, I am truly saddened for the profound loss of your two loved ones. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Russ Whyman left a message on April 12, 2013:
Marcia, Cathy, Devin and Emma I extend my deepest sympathy to you on the loss of Shay and Mathew. Many will miss them. You are in my thoughts.
Bernadette Nichols left a message on April 11, 2013:
To the Family of Shay & Matthew Heddens: Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. Please know that I am praying for you at this very moment.
Lorie chambers and judy ritchie left a message on April 10, 2013:
Cathy, I was so shocked to hear about Shay and her son. We are praying for you and the rest of the family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Marshel Pavlack left a message on April 10, 2013:
all our thoughts and prayers. many years have passed and im sorry for the tragic loss you are suffering.
Roxy left a message on April 10, 2013:
My prayers and thoughts.
Aunt Marcia left a message on April 10, 2013:
My Dearest Shay, From the day you were born, you were the light of my life. We had such an incredible bond between us that lasted for years. I could write a book of the times we spent together. You were a beautiful baby, little girl and turned in such a wonderful women. I was so proud of you. In the last few years you endured so much physical pain, pain that nobody your age should have had to suffer with. Rest assure, I will watch over your children because they are an extension of you and I will help them in any way I can. I am suffering so deeply, but you no longer have to. I love you and my only comfort is to know you are at peace.
Geisen Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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